Somewhere between looking at news videos of an angry mob in Beijing after an Apple store couldn’t open due to safety concerns when it was literally mobbed by thousands waiting for an iPhone 4S and following reports of cruise ship mayhem and chaos I was still able to focus on something newsworthy yet celebratory.
Muhammed Ali and Betty White both celebrated birthdays today. The three-time heavyweight boxing champion celebrated his 70th birthday and seven-time Emmy winner Betty White turned 90! Their reasons for celebrity are well-known and certainly not in question, but what is it about them that may just set them a little apart from many others in public life?
What I know about professional boxing falls into the negative integers column, but as a child I was certainly charmed by the charismatic Muhammed Ali. I easily recall the hub-bub concerning his shift from Cassius Clay and headline controversy when he aligned himself with the Nation of Islam. His refusal in 1967 to serve in the U.S. Army/Vietnam was followed by everyone. Ali was imprisoned, lost his boxing license, and was stripped of his world championship, and it wasn’t until almost four years later that the Supreme Court overturned the conviction and ruled Ali was a conscientious objector, not a criminal. I understood very little of the politics or implications during this period, but Ali was a media and interview magnate and I watched him, observed the quick wit and fancy patter–“float like a butterfly, sting like a bee” and simply understood he was larger-than-life.
And then Happy Birthday to Betty White! I think there is general agreement that despite the focus on her remarkably long public career, her humor and energy has made her almost ageless. At least I can say that I don’t focus on her age at all, but instead marvel and celebrate a woman who at 90 is still working in a demanding career she loves, is dedicated to animal advocacy and is rarely observed without a smile. I have no idea how much of Ms. White’s “real life” corresponds to her outward and public persona, but I would at least applaud a life well-lived and respectfully request that anyone with information that could somehow disabuse me of my belief that her public and private persona are not too far apart…well, I’d rather not know.
I am simply inspired by people who persevere. Longevity can sometimes be admired for more than just the number of years. Both Ali and White have had heaping doses of disappointment in their lives, but they have successfully mixed heartache in with a great deal of resilience. I admire the quality of resilience, and have written about it previously in a post about it here: Elizabeth Edwards.
I think everyone who remembers Ali at the pinnacle of his sport is saddened to see him with physical weakness and the effects of Parkinson’s. Yet his wife, Lonnie, says he still wakes up every day with a smile on his face. What first brought the story of his birthday to my attention was hearing about his choice of birthday present—a pink Rolls Royce. That’s a man who still enjoys life!
Ali is said to have stated, “Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth.” The website Look to the Stars records that “Ali has helped serve 232 million meals worldwide. He has hand-delivered food and medical supplies to children in Asia, Africa, and through North, South and Central Americas.” He has strongly supported Special Olympics, Athletes for Hope, UNICEF, and multiple organizations involved in Parkinson’s Disease research.
Ali and White have more than birthdays in common. They have made tremendous efforts to be useful, contributing hundreds of hours to commitments outside of their personal career goals. They made the life choice to be concerned with others and it would seem that these efforts have contributed to being both beloved, and apparently happily embracing age.
Betty’s friends and fellow actors remark about her positive attitude and determination to just “keep going.” Last year the Huffington Post wrote an article about Betty saying that she understands that people dread getting older and romanticize youth. “So many of us start dreading age when we’re in high school. And I think that’s really a waste of a lovely life.” She accentuates the positive, believing that attitude in mind is reflected in the body, and she chooses to celebrate the here-and-now rather than dread the future.
And she, too, observes that “thinking of others rather than yourself” is key to a happy life. White is well-known for her active support with animal charities such as “Actors and Others for Animals” and the Morris Animal Foundation. She is also duly noted for her work at the Los Angeles Zoo, the organization PAWS/LA and is a supporter for St. Francis Food Pantries and Shelters, providing needy families with food and drop-in shelter. She hasn’t let age keep her from being an active civic participant.
I have one of those significant birthdays coming up this spring–believe me, you’ll be hearing more about that! But while I consider what it means to hit certain “age-related milestones” I’m really celebrating what two very different–yet similar in attitude– cultural icons can teach us about enjoying life and living life well. They have a lot to teach us if we want to learn!
And I hope that next year we’re also wishing both of these amazing people another very Happy Birthday!
Saluting well-being, Debra
And they say that we have no more heroes! I’ve never met Mr. Ali, nor do I know anyone who has, but his work with the World’s less privileged speaks for itself. I do know 2 people whose work, on different occasions, brought each into contact with Miss White. She was every bit as sweet and nice as her public persona would suggest. I hope they both had wonderful birthdays!
I am just delighted to hear that you have it on good report that Betty is indeed just as lovely in “real life” as her public performances! Can’t we draw a lot of strength from thinking about these wonderful examples of aging with purpose? I think only time will tell if the “new crop” of celebrities ever establish and maintain the same level of grace, but in the meantime, I’m enjoying contemplating these two 🙂 Thank you, John for your input! Debra
This is such a tremendous post for me to start my day with, Debra. A wonderful tribute to Muhammed Ali and Betty White and to all those who perservere. I, too, remember those early years of Ali’s career and marvel at the impact he has made on boxing – and on life. Betty White is one of those women who, at I sit upon the age 62, I say that I want to be like when I grow up.
Thank you.
Oh, I like that, Penny! Let’s indeed be like Betty White when we grow up! That makes me smile 🙂 I have been enjoying just thinking about the pair of them! And I discovered that Betty has a new book coming out in February. I think I will make a point of getting a copy, and maybe I’ll share a book report! I’m sure I would learn a great deal about the secret of her wonderful disposition. Debra
Dear Debra,
As Penny says, this is a “wonderful tribute to Muhammed Ali and Betty White.” I followed eagerly as you described their positive attitudes and the work they do to “pay their rent” here on earth.
We need people like Ali and White to show us a life well lived. Their lives encourage us to pay our own rent. I so need to get out and do more for others and yet I’m letting aches and pains keep me here in my home. Thanks for this reminder that one of the great joy in life is reaching out to others, including animals as I’m sure Betty White would add.
Peace.
Thank you for adding your observations, Dee. I do think there are seasons when it’s important to take care of our aches and pains enough to prepare for the next leg of the journey, as well as being mindful of others. From what I have observed in your sharing, I think you are someone who has been involved, and continues to participate in the lives of others as well as God’s little creatures! I’m glad that thinking of these two icons and their examples encourages you going forward, but I also really respect the need sometimes to stop and reconsider “how are we doing?” It’s balance, isn’t it? Blessings, Debra
Dear Debra,
Thank you for reminding me that “balance” is essential. I’ve always been such a “get it done right now” type of person. My friends called me a workaholic during my work years. Now I must learn to balance the needing to get things done with the fact that my body no longer has the resilience it once had. Nor the energy. As Julian of Norwich said, and I so often forget, “And all shall be well. And all shall be well. And all manner of things shall be exceedingly well.”
I am keeping up just fine on your blogs. They are the highlight of my days! Your writing is a true gift. Soooo glad you are sharing it.
Your prayer support is very much appreciated. It brings tears to my eyes to know of the love from so many who are standing in the gap. Love ya!
Oh my goodness, Kathy! I’m so delighted to see your name here! I’m thrilled if I can give you a little chuckle!! You just keep on getting well…and you’d better believe we’re praying for you! Love you,TONS! D
Debra, these are both people deserving of this tribute. Who couldn’t admire and want to emulate Betty White? I hope I can embrace life with such gusto when I’m 90. She is an icon to be treasured. And, like you, I remember Ali in his heyday. He always seemed larger-than-life to the little-girl-me, someone with a bravado that always revealed a sweet spot, somehow.
It fascinates me, Andra, to think about how it is some people simply transcend the ordinary…they really ARE larger-than-life. I’ve enjoyed thinking about Ali and White…and sharing the celebration! Debra
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Debra, what a wonderful uplifting post: it makes me feel upbeat just to read it, and sends me scurrying off to find out more about these two incredible people. thank you.
I’m glad you have some interest, Kate, and I really don’t know what contexts for knowing about them we may already share…or not! It’s funny how we can think “everyone” knows certain celebrities, and of course, that isn’t true. But I’m sure with a short google you’ll learn more 🙂 Debra
Thank you for a lovely tribute to two icons. It’s a great post and very inspiring. I look forward to hearing more about your own milestone.
Thank you, Otto. I’m so pleased you also found inspiration, as I did, too, with both Ms. White and Mr. Ali. And you can be sure I’ll be sharing about my big day…it’s coming quickly! 🙂 Debra
I’m always inspired by people that persevere too. These are two fabulous examples of some seriously strong, brave and amazing people. 🙂
Thank you for stopping by, Kristy. I enjoyed sharing about Betty and Ali…I have yet to hear anything said about them to indicate they aren’t generally considered really wonderful people. So often people get pleasure in tearing others down, so I think it REALLY speaks well of these two, that they aren’t targeted for some kind of scandal or ugly headline 🙂 Debra